get out of your head & into their bed!
I help swingers embrace their badassery so they can grab the Lifestyle by the balls!Get Started
What does the Lifestyle mean to you? Your reasons for swinging influence your actions. Take the quiz to find out what kind of a swinger YOU are!
"I have had the BEST experience with Jo. Our first meeting she gave me pointers and ideas that I didn't see originally to help me get closer to my goal. Even after that she helped with me getting my dream job helping me explain my situation finding out that they were super supportive and accepting. I do credit her with the boost of confidence and me landing the job!"
Freebies For You:
3-Day Confidence Mini Course
Get a jump start on your confidence with Jo's FREE 3-Day Confidence Course.
Body Language 101
Learn to read the signs of interest, and signs to show your interest to others.
Here are some ideas for you to use to connect more easily with others.
hey, i'm jo!
Hi, I’m Jo Leavitt. My husband and I have been in the Lifestyle for 16 years. In that time, I’ve seen a lot of people blossom! I’ve seen people who have struggled with confidence finally accept their bodies, their kinks, and their uniqueness, and it’s a beautiful thing! But I’ve also seen a lot of people struggle in the Lifestyle. They struggle with their confidence, with being socially awkward, and with not knowing what to do to play regularly and consistently.
Seeing that struggle, seeing all the people who don’t participate in the Lifestyle like they want to, like they see other people doing, was what led me to start The Confident Swinger. My biggest goal, my passion, is helping you get what you want out of the Lifestyle.More About Jo
"Jo is a breath of fresh air in the coaching world! She is so open, friendly, and genuine. I love being able to talk about absolutely anything with her in a frank and non-judgmental way. When she guides me to tackle uncomfortable topics I feel supported and heard. Best yet, her process works! I'm nearing the end of her three-month program and feel light-years better than where I started. I believe it takes a very special coach to know how to help with confidence issues, especially in the Lifestyle. I highly recommend working with Jo. The investment is so worth it."
- Jen G.
"We just need to be kinder to ourselves. If we treated ourselves the way we treated our best friend, can you imagine how much better off we would be?"
ways we can work together
A one-time, 90-minute session with Jo, focusing on one specific issue that you are facing.
Work with Jo on an ongoing basis. These coaching sessions can be about lifestyle and confidence issues, or other struggles you are facing, personally or professionally.
Get Out Of Your Head & Into Their Bed Program
Learn to change your relationship with your thoughts and fears, and learn to connect with people so they respond to you.
"After the "Strategy Session" I used what Jo and I discussed and .... what do you know, BOOM! communication! My girlfriend and I were able to discuss what we wanted out of the lifestyle! and guess what, it was the same thing. We were able to discuss our boundaries, hopes, fears and fantasies! Working with Jo has been fantastic, she is an amazing listener and the thought provoking questions she asks during our conversation was eye opening. I could go on and on. Thank you for your help Jo!"
The Confident Swinger
Where we grow your self confidence and badassery so you can fully experience the Lifestyle of your choice.Listen Now
"I don’t have the words to express how wonderful my experience was with Jo. She asked such great questions that helped me see the situation from a different perspective. She helped me set achievable goals. We came up with ways for me to be accountable to
myself. I look forward to working with her more in the future."